The self-help marketing machine works because it bypasses your pain and shame

I oppose the idea that I need to fight, conquer or overcome my fears and demons

I oppose the idea that “all you need to do” to get over it is to just do it

I oppose the self-help marketing that tells you that you are wasting your time because you are not living your best life right now

I oppose any kind of self-help that pushes you to act by poking at your secret shame without any kindness or compassion

I oppose anyone who does this and promises that it can all be fixed in three easy steps

I especially oppose the idea that this is a cerebral exercise

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