Lessons learned after I failed to become unfuckwithable

Your mindset does not need fixing

Reframing your mindset work IS mindset work. You are not a Home Depot weekend project. What if mindset work was looking at ourselves with curiosity? What if mindset work is about healing? There’s nothing to fix. There is nothing wrong with you. Yes, even when you are getting in your own way.

You need to have a success mindset before you see results

At a rational level, we understand this is not true. You know the journey of 1,000 miles starts with the first step. It’s another thing to be truly okay with this and feel like a champ when you are on mile 5 of 1000.

“I just need to do Marie Forleo’s morning routine”

No, you don’t.



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Carolina Chanis

Carolina Chanis


I write about the emotional courage it takes to start a thing…from the lens of an extreme perfectionist